Sean and I were really torn on whether to give an allowance to the kids. We used to give a small allowance to Brandon but not the twins, since they were too young. Then we decided to stop paying an allowance, because we wanted Brandon to earn money based on specific work, rather than just giving cash unrelated to effort. We thought about linking an allowance with chores, but felt that the kids should be helping around the house, regardless of an allowance. All of this left us in quite a quandary. To allowance or not to allowance, that was ...